{"title":"All books","description":"\u003cp\u003eTwelve complete cookbooks. Every one a finished work, not an extract.\u003c\/p\u003e","products":[{"product_id":"is-he-cheating","title":"Is He Cheating?","description":"\u003cp class=\"sub\"\u003eUnderstanding his behaviour, recognising the signs of infidelity, and discovering the truth without losing yourself.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eDoes any of this sound familiar?\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cul class=\"symptoms\"\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eHis phone is suddenly face down, on silent, with a new passcode.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eHe is there, but he is not there. You cannot say when that started.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eHe picks fights about nothing, then leaves the room.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eHe has stopped asking about your day.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eYou have started checking. And checking never ends.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"twoup\"\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel pos\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat this book is\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eA guide to understanding behaviour: what people think and feel when they change, keep secrets or cross the line, and what else could be happening when a partner changes.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat it is not\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eA lie detector. No book is. You will not find ten signs that prove he is cheating, because that list does not exist. 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Plus a glossary, further reading, and where to get help.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"twoup\"\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel pos\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eBuy it if\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou have noticed something and nobody will take you seriously.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want to stop guessing and start thinking clearly.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want to be able to respect your own decision later.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eDo not buy it if\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want proof by tonight. This book will not give you that.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou are looking for a way into his phone or his accounts.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou are in danger. Then you need help, not a book.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003e341 pages. 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And checking never ends.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"twoup\"\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel pos\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat this book is\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe same careful method as the first book, written for men: what changes in a woman's behaviour, what each change can mean, and what else is often going on underneath.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat it is not\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eA list of ten signs. There is no such list. 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Most of it is about staying in the family without letting it run your relationship.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eWhat is inside\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart I.\u003c\/strong\u003e Understanding in-law tension\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart II.\u003c\/strong\u003e Protecting the couple\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart III.\u003c\/strong\u003e Hot situations\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart IV.\u003c\/strong\u003e Repair and peace\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart V.\u003c\/strong\u003e Building a healthy extended family\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eAnd then.\u003c\/strong\u003e Appendices with the practical material, a glossary of the terms used, further reading, and where to get help.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"twoup\"\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel pos\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eBuy it if\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eTheir family is in your marriage and you cannot say it out loud.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou are tired of being the one who has to be understanding.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want to stop arguing with your partner about someone else.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eDo not buy it if\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want ammunition against your mother-in-law.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eThe problem is between you two, and the family is the excuse.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want someone to be declared the villain.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003e319 pages, and the uncomfortable truth that the boundary has to come from their child, not from you.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Mike Love","offers":[{"title":"English","offer_id":57581429358932,"sku":"ML-IL-EN","price":9.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true},{"title":"Italiano","offer_id":57581429391700,"sku":"ML-IL-IT","price":9.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true},{"title":"Français","offer_id":57581429424468,"sku":"ML-IL-FR","price":9.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true},{"title":"Español","offer_id":57581429457236,"sku":"ML-IL-ES","price":9.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true},{"title":"Deutsch","offer_id":57581429490004,"sku":"ML-IL-DE","price":9.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1072\/7781\/2052\/files\/cover-inlaws-EN_9da438ce-0660-4bf2-9172-c53792ecc521.jpg?v=1791891330"},{"product_id":"anxious-in-love","title":"Anxious in Love","description":"\u003cp class=\"sub\"\u003eHow to Calm Anxious Attachment, Stop Overthinking Your Relationship, and Feel Secure.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eDoes any of this sound familiar?\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cul class=\"symptoms\"\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eYou read the message six times before sending it.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eA slow reply ruins the afternoon.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eYou need reassurance and hate needing it.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eYou are calm in every part of your life except this one.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"twoup\"\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel pos\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat this book is\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eA book about anxious attachment: why closeness makes you panic, what the mind does while it waits, and how people actually earn security.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat it is not\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eA character flaw explained. Anxious attachment is a pattern that was learned, and patterns can be changed.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eWhat is inside\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart I.\u003c\/strong\u003e Understanding anxious attachment\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart II.\u003c\/strong\u003e Inside the anxious mind\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart III.\u003c\/strong\u003e Changing the pattern\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart IV.\u003c\/strong\u003e Special situations\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart V.\u003c\/strong\u003e Earned security\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eAnd then.\u003c\/strong\u003e Appendices with the practical material, a glossary of the terms used, further reading, and where to get help.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"twoup\"\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel pos\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eBuy it if\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou overthink a relationship that is probably fine.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want to stop needing constant proof.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou have read the theory and want something to do.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eDo not buy it if\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYour partner is actually hiding things. 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Half of it is about your own part in the pattern and where your limits are.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eWhat is inside\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart I.\u003c\/strong\u003e Understanding avoidance\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart II.\u003c\/strong\u003e Inside the dance\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart III.\u003c\/strong\u003e Building closeness\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart IV.\u003c\/strong\u003e Your needs and your limits\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart V.\u003c\/strong\u003e Toward secure love\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eAnd then.\u003c\/strong\u003e Appendices with the practical material, a glossary of the terms used, further reading, and where to get help.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"twoup\"\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel pos\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eBuy it if\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou are always the one reaching.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want to stop chasing without giving up.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want to know what is worth waiting for and what is not.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eDo not buy it if\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want them to change on a deadline.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou are being treated badly and calling it avoidance.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want to be told it is not your pattern too.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003e314 pages. 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