{"product_id":"afraid","title":"Afraid","description":"\u003cp class=\"sub\"\u003eWhen your partner's anger scares you: how to recognise danger, protect yourself, and find a way out.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eDoes any of this sound familiar?\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cul class=\"symptoms\"\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eYou check his mood before you decide what to say.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eYou have started apologising for things you did not do, to keep the evening quiet.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eYou tell your friends a shorter version of what happened at home.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eNothing has been broken yet, and you still flinch at a raised hand.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eYou have thought about leaving, and then thought about what leaving would cost.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"twoup\"\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel pos\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat this book is\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eA clear book about fear in a relationship: what anger is, where abuse begins, and what you can do while you are still there, written to be read quickly and quietly.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat it is not\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eA judgment on your partner or on you, and not a reason to act tonight if acting tonight is not safe. Three chapters are about exactly that: how to protect yourself without triggering the worst.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eWhat is inside\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart I.\u003c\/strong\u003e Fear in a relationship: is it normal to be afraid, where anger ends and abuse begins, intimidation without a single blow, when it becomes physical, and the highest danger signs.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart II.\u003c\/strong\u003e Inside the fear: what fear does to your body, walking on eggshells, the voice that says it is your fault, and the many shapes fear takes.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart III.\u003c\/strong\u003e Protecting yourself now: staying safer while you are still there, what to do during an incident, what to do after, children who live with fear, and telling someone.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart IV.\u003c\/strong\u003e Finding a way out: why leaving is the most dangerous time, the day you leave, and staying safe afterwards.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart V.\u003c\/strong\u003e Living without fear: when fear stays in the body, trusting yourself again, and love without fear.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"twoup\"\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel pos\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eBuy it if\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou have started organising your life around someone else's temper.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want to know, plainly, where the line is.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want a plan that does not depend on him changing.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eDo not buy it if\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou are in danger right now. Then call your emergency number first, and read later.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want advice on how to keep him calm forever. That is not a plan, it is a cage.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou are looking for proof to show someone else.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003e336 pages. It opens with the phone numbers, not with a sales page.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Mike Love","offers":[{"title":"English","offer_id":57574337347924,"sku":"ML-A-EN","price":9.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true},{"title":"Italiano","offer_id":57574337380692,"sku":"ML-A-IT","price":9.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true},{"title":"Français","offer_id":57574337413460,"sku":"ML-A-FR","price":9.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true},{"title":"Español","offer_id":57574337446228,"sku":"ML-A-ES","price":9.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true},{"title":"Deutsch","offer_id":57574337478996,"sku":"ML-A-DE","price":9.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1072\/7781\/2052\/files\/cover-afraid-EN_a8126b43-a4f3-4170-9da5-f7e25670552c.jpg?v=1791891324","url":"https:\/\/iooli.com\/products\/afraid","provider":"Mike Love","version":"1.0","type":"link"}