{"product_id":"im-jealous","title":"I’m Jealous","description":"\u003cp class=\"sub\"\u003eHow to understand jealousy, calm your insecurity, and build trust that lasts.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eDoes any of this sound familiar?\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cul class=\"symptoms\"\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eYou check, and the relief lasts about four minutes.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eYou have read a conversation you were not meant to read, and felt worse either way.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eYou ask a question you already know the answer to, hoping the answer sounds different.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eThey say you are being paranoid, and you are no longer sure.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eYou are exhausted by a betrayal that has not happened.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"twoup\"\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel pos\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat this book is\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eA book for both sides of jealousy: when it is you, and when it is them. It separates the kind that is information from the kind that is an old wound, and gives you something to do about each.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat it is not\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eA promise that the feeling disappears. Jealousy is not a defect, it is a signal. The work is reading it correctly instead of obeying it.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eWhat is inside\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart I.\u003c\/strong\u003e Understanding jealousy: where it comes from, what it is for, and the difference between a signal and a story.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart II.\u003c\/strong\u003e When you are the jealous one: checking, the questions that make it worse, and what to do with the first ten minutes.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart III.\u003c\/strong\u003e When your partner is jealous: control dressed as love, what to agree on, and what not to concede.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart IV.\u003c\/strong\u003e Jealousy in special situations: exes, work, social media, open arrangements, and after a real betrayal.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePart V.\u003c\/strong\u003e Building secure trust: how trust is actually rebuilt, in steps, by both people.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"twoup\"\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel pos\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eBuy it if\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou are tired of the loop and want it to stop.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want to tell a real warning from an old fear.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want to rebuild trust after it was broken once.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n  \u003cdiv class=\"panel\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eDo not buy it if\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want a way to monitor someone. That is in no chapter of any of my books.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eYou want to be told you are right.\u003c\/li\u003e\n    \u003cli\u003eThe jealousy in your house comes with threats. Read Afraid instead.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003e314 pages. The first thing it asks is which of the two of you it is about.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Mike Love","offers":[{"title":"English","offer_id":57574337741140,"sku":"ML-IJ-EN","price":9.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true},{"title":"Italiano","offer_id":57574337773908,"sku":"ML-IJ-IT","price":9.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true},{"title":"Français","offer_id":57574337806676,"sku":"ML-IJ-FR","price":9.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true},{"title":"Español","offer_id":57574337839444,"sku":"ML-IJ-ES","price":9.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true},{"title":"Deutsch","offer_id":57574337872212,"sku":"ML-IJ-DE","price":9.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1072\/7781\/2052\/files\/cover-jealous-EN_cacdf6f4-99d8-4f5b-a344-0b253fe4bb28.jpg?v=1791891327","url":"https:\/\/iooli.com\/products\/im-jealous","provider":"Mike Love","version":"1.0","type":"link"}