Mike Love
Pulling Away
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A behaviour is not the same as proof.The sentence this whole book is built on.
How to Understand an Avoidant Partner, Stop Chasing, and Build Real Closeness.
Does any of this sound familiar?
- Things go well and then they go quiet.
- The closer you get, the further they move.
- You chase, they retreat, and you both know the steps.
- They say they need space and you hear that you are too much.
What this book is
A book about an avoidant partner: what closeness does to them, why chasing makes it worse, and how two people in that dance can actually build something.
What it is not
A way to fix them. Half of it is about your own part in the pattern and where your limits are.
What is inside
Part I. Understanding avoidance
Part II. Inside the dance
Part III. Building closeness
Part IV. Your needs and your limits
Part V. Toward secure love
And then. Appendices with the practical material, a glossary of the terms used, further reading, and where to get help.
Buy it if
- You are always the one reaching.
- You want to stop chasing without giving up.
- You want to know what is worth waiting for and what is not.
Do not buy it if
- You want them to change on a deadline.
- You are being treated badly and calling it avoidance.
- You want to be told it is not your pattern too.
314 pages. The fourth part is about your needs, and it does not apologise for them.
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Questions
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Is the translation a machine translation?
Will it show up on my bank statement?
If you are afraid of your partner, start somewhere else.
If you have been threatened, hurt or controlled, or you think that raising this could put you or your children at risk, contact your local emergency number or a domestic violence service before anything else. Your safety comes before any question these books discuss.