Mike Love
Red Flags, Green Flags
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A behaviour is not the same as proof.The sentence this whole book is built on.
How to spot a toxic partner in the first thirty days, and recognise a healthy one.
Does any of this sound familiar?
- It was intense from the first week, and that felt like fate.
- Your friends went quiet about them, in that way.
- You keep explaining their behaviour to other people.
- You have a list of things you have decided not to mind.
What this book is
A thirty-day framework for the beginning of a relationship: what to watch for, what is actually fine, and what a healthy person looks like, which nobody ever describes.
What it is not
A list that condemns anyone with a flaw. A whole part is about green flags, because knowing what good looks like is the part people are missing.
What is inside
Part I. Before you fall
Part II. The red flags
Part III. The green flags
Part IV. The thirty-day framework
Part V. Deciding and moving forward
And then. Appendices with the practical material, a glossary of the terms used, further reading, and where to get help.
Buy it if
- You are at the start of something and want your eyes open.
- You have a history of finding out too late.
- You want to know the difference between difficult and dangerous.
Do not buy it if
- You are already in deep. Then read Toxic.
- You want to audit someone you have known for years.
- You want certainty in thirty days. You get clarity, not certainty.
315 pages, thirty days, two lists.
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Questions
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If you are afraid of your partner, start somewhere else.
If you have been threatened, hurt or controlled, or you think that raising this could put you or your children at risk, contact your local emergency number or a domestic violence service before anything else. Your safety comes before any question these books discuss.