Mike Love
Stay or Leave?
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A behaviour is not the same as proof.The sentence this whole book is built on.
How to Decide About Your Relationship With a Clear Head and an Honest Heart.
Does any of this sound familiar?
- You have made the decision four times and unmade it five.
- You ask friends, and whichever answer they give, you argue the other side.
- You are waiting for something to happen that decides it for you.
- You cannot tell whether you are being patient or just afraid.
What this book is
A book for the decision itself: how to look at a relationship clearly, how to test it properly before deciding, and how to live with the answer either way.
What it is not
A verdict. It will not tell you to stay or to go, and chapter one explains why anyone who does is guessing with your life.
What is inside
Part I. Understanding your doubt
Part II. Looking clearly
Part III. Trying before deciding
Part IV. Making the decision
Part V. Living with your choice
And then. Appendices with the practical material, a glossary of the terms used, further reading, and where to get help.
Buy it if
- You have been going round this for months.
- You want to decide with your head and your heart at the same time.
- You want to be able to look back at this decision without wincing.
Do not buy it if
- You want permission.
- You have already decided and want it confirmed.
- You are in danger. Then the decision is simpler and the book is Afraid.
315 pages, and a way of trying before deciding that most people skip.
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If you are afraid of your partner, start somewhere else.
If you have been threatened, hurt or controlled, or you think that raising this could put you or your children at risk, contact your local emergency number or a domestic violence service before anything else. Your safety comes before any question these books discuss.