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Mike Love

The First Move

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A behaviour is not the same as proof. The sentence this whole book is built on.

How to Approach a Woman with Real Confidence, Respect, and Ease.

Does any of this sound familiar?

  • You see her, you think about it, and the moment passes.
  • You have been told to be confident, which is not instructions.
  • You are afraid of being the creep more than of being rejected.
  • Online you are fine, in person you freeze.

What this book is

How to start a conversation with a stranger as yourself: reading the moment, the first words, asking, and handling a no without it ruining your week.

What it is not

Pick-up. Respect is not a disclaimer here, it is the method: the book is about being easy to say yes to and easy to say no to.

What is inside

Part I. Before the first word

Part II. Reading the moment

Part III. Connection and asking

Part IV. Online and the first date

Part V. Being yourself

And then. Appendices with the practical material, a glossary of the terms used, further reading, and where to get help.

Buy it if

  • You freeze and you are tired of it.
  • You want to approach without feeling like you are bothering someone.
  • You want to hear no and be fine.

Do not buy it if

  • You want lines that work regardless of the person.
  • You want to override someone's disinterest.
  • You want to be someone else for ten minutes.

321 pages. The last part is called Being Yourself, and it is not decoration.

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Questions

How do I receive the book?
By email, straight after payment. A link to a PDF and an EPUB that you can keep and re-download whenever you like.
Is the translation a machine translation?
No. Every edition is written out in full in its own language, with its own examples and its own scripts.
Will it show up on my bank statement?
As a normal online purchase under the shop name. The title does not appear.

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